"Don't focus on what he (your husband) is doing wrong to love you...or where he is failing you. Focus on how YOU can love him the way you are supposed to. Once you take the focus off yourself and start thinking about someone else, it's amazing how your perspective, mood and overall well-being changes. And, normally, your entire household becomes a more loving, peaceful place."
This is advice i've given numerous friends as they begin marriages. Yet i continue to go through this cycle where i forget my own advice and get into the downward spiral of thinking about myself instead of Pat and it gets us into a really frustrating place. God hit me in the head with it again today...so I'm changing my perspective once again. WILL I EVER LEARN????
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